I Almost Forgot

I had to go somewhere last Sunday and I made sure to say goodbye to S before I left. She told me to wait so I could give her a hug. She usually just says bye and isn't overly concerned that I leave. Then when she came up to me to hug, she said her heart was empty and she needed me to fill her back up with love. After a few seconds, she said she had enough, but I pulled her close and she protested a bit. I told her I was giving her a little extra just in case and she happily hugged me longer. These are such little steps, but they are really huge moves for her. The fact that I haven't needed to consult the attachment therapist in almost a year is proof of the progress. The techniques she gave really work and we haven't had anything bigger that needs addressing. I'm thrilled for her progress.